In Special Education or even Behavioral Studies one of the FIRST things you learn about negative behavior is the "redirect". For example, if your five year old wants the toy your three year old has, you offer him something bigger and better than the "sister toy". Another example would be if your client really really really really wants the COKE sitting on the table you MOVE THE COKE or MOVE the client. If you're a mother you've been using the "redirect" for years, possibly without even know it.
FOR ME Today has been...
But I'm sure we ALL have days like today. SO my REDIRECT has been:
And SOME OF THIS
Right now and I feel a much better :)